DISQUS

Joe · 1 year ago

Personally, I take the self-conscious approach. If I'm with a woman who's naked and wanting to be with me, then there's no reason why I shouldn't be able to satisfy her. If Mr. Happy (no I really don't call it that) is playing Mr. Droopy, I view that as my fault. Which of course can be a downer. One time when that did happen, the woman I was with became more aggressive. She took matters into her own hands and whispered dirty little nothings in my ear. She wanted me and by god, she was going to have me. And it worked.

My experience, however, may be different from other men.

sp · 1 year ago

I think you touched on the main issue, which is that the woman should not assume WHY it's happening. I once got hard in the passenger seat of a car from all the movement, and my ex-girlfriend thought it was because of her tight shorts.