DISQUS

Enrique · 1 year ago

First off, whether or not the guy was "I boned that broad over there" bragging is up to the type of guy, and who his surrounding company is. If you're dealing with the typical swinging dick, than chances are there was not only mention of it, but details therein, where he divulged intimate and exaggerated facts.

There are reasons a guy won't share his experience with other guys though - in this particular case, anyhow:
1. Type of relationship XXXX has with the people he's surrounded by.
2. Whether or not XXXX wants to shack up with another dame in the same general area/social group as you're all in.
3. Not proud of his "score" with you - unless he's self depricating and wants to leverage the story as a joke on himself.
4. Girlfriend of XXXX is present, and he's talking to her brother...

Regardless, there's no cut & dry way to say whether or not the stories are being shared, nor the detail depth that's being exploited, but the possibilities are absolutely there, and if the situation is right, it's a guarantee that the tale is told, in graphically exaggerated detail, down to the "why he chose not to hook up with you again."

More importantly, before he even gets to the point of sharing, the moment he noticed you were "around" - not only did he immediately remember what you looked like naked, he also remembered what it looked like when you were in his favorite position getting "handled by his awesomeness". Men are ego driven, and we stroke it ourselves mentally constantly.

So... to answer your other question. Does he want to hook up again? Heh, want isn't the question - it's a matter of "would", and that's "yes", duh. Want depends on his situation.

Jenn · 1 year ago

The truth is shocking to say the least. I almost feel violated if he really did automatically jump to picturing me naked, but I guess there's nothing I can do about it.

To be fair, if the sex was amazing than we, as women, may re-envision a really amazing moment, but rarely do we leap to the picture-him-naked place. Nothing of this nature went through my head in this particular situation.

i8chew · 1 year ago

Jenn,

Enrique has many valid points in his reply, but you should also consider your choice of partners in the past. I believe that you attract the same type of person consistently, unless you make an effort for change. If previous encounters were with guys that savored the moment for themselves, then the chances that XXXXX will do the same thing is really high.

You are intelligent and intuitive enough to know that the "whole place" surely did not know of your previous liasons. If they did, the guys that couldn't control themselves would have made it rudely plain. A little self-doubt is only normal in casual relationships!

Have a Great Easter!!!

Joe · 1 year ago

Jenn,

I agree with Enrique to a point, but there is a 5th option. He doesn't tell his friend because he did genuinely enjoy his time with you and perhaps he doesn't want to destroy the possibility of it happening again.

As far as picturing you naked, I'm afraid that's a typical thing. Especially if the sex was great.

clearlii · 1 year ago

As I said.. frightening..

sp · 1 year ago

I really wouldn't worry about what he's telling his friend. He's picturing you naked regardless of what actually happened, it's how we think. Just relax, the more confident person wins the battle regardless of circumstances.