DISQUS

clearlii · 1 year ago

I'm pretty sure you know where I stand on this. I'm the queen of going it alone, and loving it. Sometimes it does backfire, though - like, when guys won't stop hitting on you because they think you are there alone in spite of your desire to be with someone... namely, them. Barf.

certainabsurdity · 1 year ago

Very nicely put. I enjoyed the read!

Joe · 1 year ago

I agree completely, especially with the comfort level increasing as you get older. When I was young and found myself in a position where I had to eat alone, if I didn't have a newspaper or a mag with me, I was a wreck. As humans we have a powerful need to join and communicate with other people. To belong. However, we also have, I believe, an equally strong need to be individualized by ourselves. We often ignore the latter, which leads to identity issues.

I won't say anything negative about the Bolts . . . although I could.


joe
Pats Fan

Jenn · 1 year ago

There are equally negative things I could say about the Pats, but I too will refrain. :)

Joe · 1 year ago

Good thing I like you . . .

Tony Dungy · 1 year ago

Try: http://whygosolo.com/

* always a Pats fan around to spoil things isn't there?