DISQUS

richandcreamy · 1 year ago

My homegirls have numbers in their phone marked DNA. Do Not Answer. I still fail to understand why they bother to take the number to begin with. Hell I still don't know why they don't walk away when they don't want to dance. No obligation to be "nice" it makes it worse. I take rejection as my own fault or she had the good sense to know we wouldn't hit it off.

Anyways speaking of numbers, I don't bother anymore. I used to have 800 once but it's not like I called everyone I got a number from, man, woman, or business in my phone

I'll collect myspaces though. You know the whole "power in weak relationships" thing social networking sites are all about. I'll take the time to get to know someone a little at a time digitally, but also ping them with event invites. Either it fizzles out or it doesn't and it's worked for me thus far!

Oh and you can always reject someone easier by not replying to messages comments or doing it very late on myspace and saying you're busy or you're not into myspace or whatever because every girl can get away with that haha.

geez I feel like I'm blogging back at you and not commenting. I'm helping to launch a remodeled restaurant with a new lounge. Send me a guest list of friends for that! =P

Jenn · 1 year ago

@richie this sounds like a subject you have tons of experience with, maybe you should blog about it! You know something like the best and worst clubs for pick ups.

My only comment back is that if I really spark with a guy, the passive social network approach will make me think he's not interested, so I'll loose interest...but that's just me. I need a take charge man.

richandcreamy · 1 year ago

Yeah I do realize the passiveness of it, but I see it as a filter of sorts. If she takes the extra step to meet up the 2nd time, I hook it up ;)

haha, in other words they tend to be special and that's what I'll make the time for.

I should so blog about that. I'll make a draft with a title so I won't forget!!

Cheapsuits · 1 year ago

I have used the rejection hotline numbers in the past but it doesn't work when that special someone wants you to actually call them while you are face to face and that is the way they get the number in their phone.

If you tell them:" I am trying to save my minutes let me just tell you my number" then you come across as a cheap ass.

Once I gave a gal the rejection hotline number and she proceeded to test it out right then and there... UGH!!

And yet again I gave it out and the girl recognized it immediately as a rejection hotline number.. what does that tell ya!

www.rejectionhotline.com/